FAQ's

Below are the top 20 questions that I am frequently asked. Please read them in their entirety before contacting me for a date. If you have any further questions, please contact me via the e-mail icon found at the bottom of this page.

ARE YOUR PHOTOGRAPHS REALLY YOU? WHY DO YOU BLUR?


To put your mind at ease right now, I want to assure you that the photos you see here are of me, are recent and they represent what I look like accurately. I pride myself on discretion and exclusivity. I do not show my face because I want to protect my personal safety and privacy. If we meet and you do not believe that I am the girl in these photos, you may relinquish yourself from our date, no questions asked. I guarantee you that I am this lady. I am often told how even more beautiful I look in person.




ARE YOUR GIFT AMOUNTS NEGOTIABLE?


My requested gift amounts are non-negotiable. I carefully select my gift requests to facilitate an exclusive, ongoing relationship with a distinguished man. Dating me is not for everyone and I understand that my requests do not fit everyone’s budget. Many will find my gift requests out of reach. This is intentional as I only choose to date up to two gentlemen per month. My ideal date seeks an otherworldly connection with a discerning courtesan or companion, not a quick romp. If you are looking for a “One hit wonder” or a regular girl that offers a quick, rushed time; there are plenty of great girls out there to match your needs. I don’t want to waste your time trying to schedule a rendezvous with me. On the other hand, if a companion that you can build a lasting bond with is your desire, then I am your lady.




DO I NEED TO GIVE YOU A GIFT BEFORE WE MEET?


When you give me a portion of my requested gift up-front it lets me know that you're serious and allows me the security to create an unforgettable experience for you. So yes, please give 50% of my gift as security before we meet for any short-term engagements.




WHAT METHODS OF GIVING DO YOU ACCEPT?


Zelle, Cash App, major credit cards, bank deposit, money/bank wire (Western Union, Money Grahm), money order, Visa gift cards, and cash are accepted. Cash is preferred and is expected when in person. For engagements outside of an established arrangement, please present your gift to me in a gift bag within the first 10 minutes of our date to ensure our encounter begins smoothly.




WHAT IF I MUST CHANGE OR CANCEL OUR DATE?


I am extremely understanding of your busy, changing schedule, and am also protective of mine. If you cancel our date at the last minute or if you are more than 15 mins late, we'll have to reschedule and you'll need t make it up with a gift :-). Should you cancel again in the future, our relationship will come to a close. Because I am exclusive and extremely low volume, I clear my calendar just for you so the time that you originally scheduled for is the time you're expected to encompass. Minor changes will likely be accommodated; however, I may ask for an additional gift to make sure you're serious before rescheduling. If you schedule a specific time frame but must cut our date short, no gifts will be given back to you. Once you give me a gift, it is mine forever. I reserve the right to cancel a date at ANY time, without giving any gifts back to you if I feel unsafe or disrespected. I value my time and I promise to value yours just as significantly. You have my word that I will be prompt and will take all proper steps to inform you if something arises preventing me from arriving right on time. On the rare occasion that I need to cancel or reschedule a date, you will not be requested to give another gift before we meet at a later time.




HOW MUCH TIME SHOULD I RESERVE?


My goal is to build an ongoing long-lasting relationship with you. The best things in life are savored therefore I strongly suggest having lunch or bruch for our first date to ensure we set the foundation for a deeply fulfilling relationship. This would give us plenty of time to get socialized over a meal and have some time to really settle in and get to know each other. If we do a meal, plan for 2-4 hours of time.




CAN WE MEET BRIEFLY FOR COFFEE OR COCKTAILS, SO THAT I CAN SEE IF WE GET ALONG?


Sure! I would love to snuggle over a nice cup of coffee or have a refreshing beverage with you. So let's plan a meet and greet. I prefer that for our first official date, we meet for a meal. Please see my Engagements page for more info and ideas. A VIP 1 on 1 conversation, screening, and a 50% partial gift before we meet is required for all first time meetings.




IS SCREENING REALLY NECESSARY?


Screening is in place for my safety and yours. Please do not contact me if you are attempting to negotiate my screening procedure. To ensure that our date will be as amazing as we both want it to be, screening is necessary.
I am very selective about who I see. Again, screening is to ensure my comfort and level of safety. Be assured that your information will never be shared with anyone or misused.




WHEN AND WHERE CAN WE MEET?


I am available to meet you anywhere in the U.S. or internationally by request with sufficient notice In a public upscale location. All my dates are fully customized to suit your needs and preferences. Schedule a VIP 1 on 1 conversation and let me bring your dream date to life! I require at least a 2-day notice for local and domestic dates and at least a 4-day notice for international travel. All dates will require additional traveling expenses to be covered. I perfer Uber Black or higher car service for all ground travel, and First Class travel arrangements and lodging accomodation for all other travel needs. I like to start dates with titillating conversation over gourmandizing and libation. I take pride in carefully planning a date fit for a King. Tell me about your desires and watch them come true!




DO YOU TRAVEL OR TOUR?


I love traveling, it is the spice of life! Travel feeds my soul and deeply inspires me. I would love to travel to you or plan a destination date. As a personal long-term companion, I do not tour but feel free to request a date with me to travel to you or with you anywhere in the world! If you've seen my bio in your city that means I am available to travel to come to see you exclusively for you. I’m dying to experience your town with you as my companion.




WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO CONTACT YOU? MAY I CALL YOU?


I sincerely appreciate your interest in wanting to connect with me and I can’t wait to hear from you. Please initiate contact via my Booking Form. From there, we'll schedule our 1 on 1 VIP conversation. If you have general inquiries, please feel free to e-mail me at: contact@datevanessa.com




WHEN WILL YOU RESPOND TO MY INQUIRY?


I’m thrilled that you’ve taken the time to inquire. I prioritize my responses to serious inquiries from serious gentlemen like you who have filled out my booking form for 1 on1 VIP Conversation... To insure me of your sincerity, please send the small gift that is requested on my booking page. Once I receive your booked appointment and gift, I will contact you at the time that was scheduled. If your appointment needs to be rescheduled, please contact me through e-mail, and I will do the same. Please advise that I pride myself on exclusivity and undivided attention so I will get back to you promptly. For general inquiries, please e-mail me.




WHAT WILL YOU WEAR?


You can rest assured that I will be dressed appropriately for the occasion. As an Luxury Lifestyle Companion, I have an array of clothing choices for every occasion. However, I always love new pretty things to wear just for you during our special time together. I'm impeccable in my grooming and presentation. My style of dress is classy and feminine yet sexy. I love wearing sumptuous lingerie and sexy high heels. Should our date require me to wear a specific type of ensemble, we can discuss this during our initial conversation.




WHAT DO YOU EXPECT FROM ME?


Thank you for asking. Before contacting me please understand that I expect you to behave in a kind and gentle manner and for you to treat me like a lady at all times. To fully enjoy the Vanessa Experience, you must be freshly showered (sorry, your morning shower does not count), please be well-groomed, smell nice, and have fresh minty breath. I am very safety and security conscious, so all first-time friends are required to be screened. I will respect your privacy and will keep your information confidential but if you are not comfortable with this, I understand. I expect you to communicate with me if you are running behind schedule. Please have a valid form of ID to present to me upon arrival. Any mention of money or sex will terminate our date. When we meet in public please present my gift to me in a gift bag, magazine, or along with another gift that you have brought for me. DO NOT hand me a white envelope in public (this is obvious), A colored envelope is perferred. All gifts should be given within the first 10 minutes of our date otherwise, I will be forced to cancel the date.




WHAT ARE YOUR PERSONAL BOUNDARIES?


As a true lady I have a few:

  • Please understand that I am not a prostitute posing as a companion. Any time spent together is considered platonic.
  • Please no disrespectful speak, vulgarity, or references to specific sexual acts for money. Furthermore, threats will not be tolerated.
  • Please draft thoughtful inquiries free of "text" message lingo, Ex: when r u free?
  • I do not accept same-day dates.
  • First dates are expected to include a meal or drinks in a public setting.
  • I expect you to be a gentleman and treat me with respect at all times.
  • Please be of a sober mind and not under any influences.
  • No smoking in my presence.
  • No haggling.
  • Good hygiene and safe health practices are required.
  • If I say no, I mean no. No pushiness or rudeness.
  • My gift is considered an act of affection and is not in exchange for anything of equal value.




DO YOU HAVE REVIEWS?


I do not have "reviews" per se as I do not consider this a public business for hobbyists, I value privacy, and I consider this as a part of my personal dating life. However, I’ve been fortunate enough to receive lovely feedback from past dates. Please see the “comments” throughout this site. If you would like to leave a review, please let me know and please be tasteful about your experience.




WILL YOU PROVIDE A SCREENING REFERENCE TO ANOTHER LADY FOR ME?


I understand that there are not many other personal companions but I have done it before for girlfriends, character references, and models. Should you need a reference for an escort I, might do so on a case by case basis. Normally, I can do this after we've had a successful experience together. Let’s discuss it.




I DON'T SEE ALL YOUR RATES. WHY?


Each engagement/arrangement is different and is tailored to fit your needs. Please let me know what style of date you would like and I will let you know what kind of gift I'd like from you. Additionally, I do not charge "rates" for my time. All monies given to me are considered gifts and are not to be misunderstood as fees, payments, or wages.




WILL YOU MARRY ME?


Wow, what a question! I am flattered to be thought of in this way. I consider dating you as a real part of my life regardless of your status. So if you are single and our relationship has grown to the point where we'd want to marry; I would consider it. I recommend that we start with an exclusive full-time arrangement first. Please see my engagements page for more information about long-term arrangements.




SHOULD I EXPECT SEX ON OUR DATES?


You should not expect sex on our dates or any sexual acts. I do not offer any form of prostitution. As an personal companion, I simply provide elite companionship. However, anything that happens between two consenting adults is by choice and is not contracted for.